a ready made family if I had my way...
First let me say I'm not crazy. In fact I'm the opposite. I'm extremely well grounded in many ways. I'm far more successful than the average bear but because of spending so much time building an amazing career I feel like I passed a lot by in the love nad family department.
I'm a huge famjily person and have lots blondes lady looking hot fucking Youngstown of nieces and nephews and have even raised a few kids (not biologiy mine) so I'm a great caregiver but I don't yet have a family of my own. I'm new to TN and I look at houses in really cool communities and places like awesome family lakefront communities and it makes me want people to spoil and share it with!
In the past I've dated generally 20s-30s not for any reason other than that's who I seemed to meet. Because of similar interests most (and there aren't many..) have also been single parents.
At this point in my life I definitely want a family so although i'm perfectly fine with someone older than me, I guess you need to think about if you still want kids or more kids as that one isn't negotiable. I've posted ads here and there (but have never actually met anyone in person...) and get a wide range of responses and it seems to crack me up when I get a response from a woman in her late 40s where I ask about children only to get a "no way" response...do us both a favor, if you don't want kids, don't respond. If you already have kids, that's great. I seem to have a lot more in common there and given that I'm very stable emotionally, financially, and so on, whether you have a child/children who has a good relationsnhip with his/her father, you still want a good person to be around them...something else I've seen many times that I still don't get...The best scenario might be someone who has kids but also wants more...a ready made family to enjoy all around!
I'm a caregiver type so I do like taking care of people but of course I don't want to be taken advantage of. I think it's perfectly OK for a man or a woman to be open about wanting a partner who can provide various things even financial stability. Why not? Like I said, if you're not looking to take advantage of someone I don't see why we all just can't be honest and say what we want! That's how I do it. I'm well known for my honesty and sincerity. I often say what others are thinking but don't want to say. I'm extremely loyal, have NEVER cheated on someone or come remotely close and I'm sure I never would, it's just not my style. i'm not a jealous person either. I think I'm a pretty darn good guy actually. I have an amazing career that just keeps getting better even when I don't think it can!
I look forward to meeting someone now that I've relocated down here. I'm certainly not interested in casual dating. I have a purpose and of course you have to get to know each other, I'm not just looking for someone to hang out with! As for looks, I'm 5' very blonde hair and blue eyes. I go to the gym usually 4 days a week because I enjoy it. I'm in good shape but certainly not a body builder I just like being active. I have a distinct look and I'm sure I'm no Brad Pitt but have never had a problem getting good dates. If I had to really guess, I'd say I'm an average guy who is the kind of person that becomes far more attractive after you get to know me. I've been told that too.
I think we're all a little shallow and superficial at times but I guess that's because we're human. I think we should all work on it. As for the person I'm looking for, I don't really have a "type" but I can say you should take care of yourself and this might sound REALLY awful but I guess I should be honest..again not having a "type" I'm open to a lot and have found women of all types attractive for various reasons but I have to draw the line sort of when it comes to weight. Now, before you shoot me, I am not at all saying I would only date tiny women...not at all...I'm saying you should take care of yourself. For example, my last girlfriend was not a small woman but she took care of herself. We went to the gym and were active together and that's what's important...if you take pride in how you look, we'll probably be just fine and again you may hate me for saying it but again, I exercise at least 4 days a week and will be doing a triathlon pretty soon, I don't think it would fit for me to be with someone who doesn't take pride in themselves...that's not superficial.
So, if at this point you're still reading and don't want to hurt me, we may make a good fit! Send me a note and let's see where it goes!