he is reformed or not! what matters is if you can trust him or not. trust is not something he can prove to you. ultimately you have to give trust. however this is an easy decision in your case. we are talking about marriage. do you really want to gamble with something this important? if divorce and all the emotional hardship you experience before, during and after the possible divorce is nothing to you then go ahead. i am not saying he be a cheater or not; that we never know and neither you -only you know when you possibly catch him at it. so your inability to trust, right or wrong does not matter; it be an area of contention now and later. he respond negatively to your distrust, even if he has reformed (usually this is in his mind only), this distrust itself could be the catalyst for him to cheat. in his eyes, if you don't trust him then he has nothing to lose anyway yes childish but still a possibility. has he reformed? statistics are against him, it usually takes something very dramatic to change ones value system or lack there of. this is a personal value issue and dependent on ones strength of character. doesn't sound like he has this either. so you have two issues against a successful ltr. one is your doubt, but i believe your concern is a valid one. the other is him and his strength of character. when he was seeing you, he was not only betraying you; he was also betraying the other woman. that was for a whole year until he got caught. sounds like it would have continued on until he tired of one or the other of you. if it was discovered through his own confession out of the blue, that is another story. are you this desperate or is he this good looking and charming? the only way this work is if your case is the exception. do you believe you are the exception? are you that story book exception? yes you have named yourself aptly.
I never cheat, never lie and never want you to regret anything! m4w
Hi, I just wanted to put my thoughts down online. Maybe having an intuitive perception or epiphany, maybe I am having a catharsis, and purging these emotions and thoughts.
I have met a few women on Anchorage's Craigslist Casual Encounters over the past 3 1/2 years.
I am not saying this to scare anyone; because I am still completely clean, healthy and disease free, and I do get tested often.
I ALWAYS use protection with vaginal intercourse and have never had a condom break. I hate anal, and never do that.
I have met a few women here, and have had sex with a few of those I met.
Of the women I met, my absolute favorites are clear in my mind:
Tracy, 19, Filipina and hot, but not skinny, an she loved to suck on my cock, an she sucked it like no one has ever sucked my cock before, It was just incredibly intense constant near orgasm and her favorite thing was to suck on my balls, OMG! So damn good!
Never came so good ever! And thats all she wanted to do, Text me, come to my place as I was stepping out of the shower, and she immediately come in, open my robe as I sat on the edge of my bed, and then she got the edible lube out, started to stroke my cock, and then sucked,,,,and sucked, and she wrapped these ball rings around me once they were moistened , then wrap them around either my balls individually, or one ring for both balls, Sometimes she put one cock ring on each ball, and then she wrapped another around both balls, That was some intense sex! WOW!
She would suck on both my balls at the same time with ease! Some huge orgasms shooting all over her face, chin and chest there!
She didn't swallow often, which was fine because I love to kiss, so swallowing ruins kissing for me.
That lasted about a year. I never had another woman while I was getting that great oral sex! And I could have, but I loved it so, and I respected it.
Another was June: 23 YO college student and nanny, so hot, so fun, and taught me how to be a great Dom in bed. Not a selfish Dom, just how to be in control, safe direction in incredible sensual motions and actions.
I had never known that using tools like furry handcuffs and straps can bring such passion and intense organismic release over and over again. Later, she found another fuck buddy, but that didn't turn out well.
Most men on CL are not nice people. I am a good person, and an amazing sexual and passionate person.
One of the things I always kept close to my heart was, her safety, her satisfaction, having no regrets, and never hurting anyone.
I know people lie, but if a woman looked very young, I would always look at her drivers licence. I sent more than a few home because they looked too young, and "didn't have it." Not gonna work, not gonna do that.
I also never sleep with a woman who I suspect is married or in a relationship. I respect those things, and I never ever cheat. I never ever lie. It makes life so simple!
The sex has been amazing, and I have learned a lot, and taught even more. I am not hung like a horse, but I am confident, healthy, active, funny and am proof that an average size man can have a beautiful Cock!
I have heard my cock is the most beautiful cock ever from more than a few women. Also, my hygiene down there is impeccable!
No Funk, no smells, and everything is trimmed, shaved, waxed and fresh! Women love the taste of my cum! I drink lots of coconut juice, and grapefruit juice on days I am having sex.
I have been given oral sex by every woman, minus one, whom in hindsight, was probably cheating on her boyfriend, and really one of the most boring in bed.
But I never push my cock in a womans mouth or face. Forcing something done that someone doesn't want to do, never is worth it, and certainly won't make it happen more often!
Regrets are forever, but happy, fun times are what I want now, and every time I have sex, and for those women I have sex with.
I truly LOVE performing oral sex on a woman, but I have to be comfortable with her, and know she is not married or has a boyfriend or someone else's semen in her. Thats gross, and taking a shower doesn't remove it. I am simple and complicated. I love what I love, I do what I like, and I respect you enough to tell you the truth, always. If I do trust you, and your pussy tastes wonderful, and is trimmed or waxed; I will lick you for an hour every milf dating in Mountain ranch single day, with nothing expected in return. But usually lots of great sex happens after I lick a pussy good!
Well, not sure to post a picture, but request one and I will oblige you,
gnite, talk soon!
no time for games
ladies i realy dont have no time for games , im looking for a friend to hang out and maybee more and pleace NO MAN , NO DUDE I dont nned one . Im bi , i also have a bf and kids so if u are not up to it dont bother , im verry clean person , al verry sweet , u will love to be with me , i nned a girl who will teah me alot of thigs that i havent fell yet i know it must fell good , im latina so if u want someone to teach ill be available . i have post here in other times but i guess no one is up to teach a little something i also love goin to bounce , im drug free i drink sometimes . And i dont like games it will be just u and me no one else .... ill be waiting for ur email